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2019.06.28 18:19 Poowhistlehs New to smoking guide & FAQ

This is a quick post to help those new to smoking get their feet on the ground.
So below is a list of FAQ's, resources, and links to my favorite recipes.
FAQ
What smoker should I buy? If you want to "set it and forget it," look for an electric, propane, or pellet smoker. Pellet smokers are incredibly popular right now.
If you're wanting to manage your fire/temp and put quite a bit more work in, you should go with a charcoal/wood smoker. *My personal opinion* I recently transitioned from electric to charcoal/wood, and I won't be going back. The flavor, the smoke ring, and the "getting your hands dirty" type of cooking can't be beat.
In general, you get what you pay for. More expensive smokers are going to be make with thicker steel, have better air flow, and will hold more even temps. Tip: Scour facebook marketplace for good deals on used smokers.
I just bought a smoker and have no idea what to do next? Congrats, you're on the beginning of a long and beautiful journey. Begin by firing up your smoker at high heat and letting it go for several hours. This will burn off all the chemicals and make it safe for food.
What should I smoke first? For a longer first smoke, I'd go with a pork butt. It's a very forgiving piece of meat. Or for a shorter smoke, go with a whole chicken. Should take 3 or 4 hours depending on cook temp and size of bird. Brisket and ribs take a bit more skill - so give those a go once you've got something a bit easier under your belt.
How long do I smoke X meat? The basic idea of BBQ is low and slow, but you knew that. With a few exceptions (ribs for example), you're going to smoke your meat until it hits a certain internal temperature, rather than for a specific amount of time. Check out this guide to get you started. Pay close attention to the "target internal temp."
What wood should I use? In general, I'd start with apple or pecan which are milder woods, or hickory, which is a bit more medium to full bodied. Once you get comfortable here, branch out and try something new. Each wood has its own flavor profile. Again, check out the bottom of this chart for what woods to use with which meat.
My pork butt or brisket has stayed at the same temp and is not moving. Help! Relax. This is perfectly normal. It's called "the stall." This is a point in the cooking where the temperature doesn't move for several hours. At this point, you can wrap in foil or butcher paper to help push through the stall (this is called the Texas crutch), or you can just let it be. Read more about the stall here.
Resources
How to manage your fire/temp - 30 Minute video that will get you started on managing your fire and temp for charcoal/wood smokers.
Amazingribs.com - Just a wealth of knowledge here. Everywhere from the science of smoking meat to recipes.
BBQ with Franklin - Widely considered as one of the best. He's a Texan and a BBQ purist. Go learn from the master and be entertained.
My Favorite Recipes
Pulled Pork - Everything you need to know about smoking a pork butt. I cover my pork butt in mustard and gently pat my rub on it.
Brisket - The Mount Everest of BBQ. This will get you headed in the right direction.
Whole Chicken - The key to amazing, tender smoked chicken is the brine. Brine your chicken 8-24 hours, dry your bird off, add salt/pepper, and smoke at 250-275 degrees until internal temp of thickest part of breast is 165.
Chicken Wings - When you're in the mood to smoke a snack, not a meal.
Cheese Stuffed Meat Loaf - Guys. This recipe is nuts. I modified it a bit because I was missing a few things. But wow.
Memphis Rub - My go to rub for pork.
Twice Baked Potato Casserole - I just take this and, instead of throwing in the oven, I smoke it.
Four Cheese Mac N Cheese - Dang, this stuff is good. Throw in some bits of smoked meat to kick it up a notch.
Smoked Green Beans - Best green beans I've ever eaten. Seriously.
Stuff I wish someone would have told me when I first started:
Thanks for reading! Leave any questions in the comments. This post is continually being updated.
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2019.06.06 23:13 Poowhistlehs Smoking Resources & FAQ to get you started

Hello smoking! Welcome to the subreddit dedicated to the "techniques, tips, recipes, and pictures of smoking meats, vegetables, fruits, or anything else consumable." This is a quick post to help those new to smoking get their feet on the ground.
So below is a list of FAQ's, resources, and links to my favorite recipes.
FAQ
What smoker should I buy? If you want to "set it and forget it," look for an electric, propane, or pellet smoker. Pellet smokers are incredibly popular right now.
If you're wanting to manage your fire/temp and put quite a bit more work in, you should go with a charcoal/wood smoker. *My personal opinion* I recently transitioned from electric to charcoal/wood, and I won't be going back. The flavor, the smoke ring, and the "getting your hands dirty" type of cooking can't be beat.
In general, you get what you pay for. More expensive smokers are going to be make with thicker steel, have better air flow, and will hold more even temps. Tip: Scour facebook marketplace for good deals on used smokers.
I just bought a smoker and have no idea what to do next? Congrats, you're on the beginning of a long and beautiful journey. Begin by firing up your smoker at high heat and letting it go for several hours. This will burn off all the chemicals and make it safe for food.
What should I smoke first? For a longer first smoke, I'd go with a pork butt. It's a very forgiving piece of meat. Or for a shorter smoke, go with a whole chicken. Should take 3 or 4 hours depending on cook temp and size of bird. Brisket and ribs take a bit more skill - so give those a go once you've got something a bit easier under your belt.
How long do I smoke X meat? The basic idea of BBQ is low and slow, but you knew that. With a few exceptions (ribs for example), you're going to smoke your meat until it hits a certain internal temperature, rather than for a specific amount of time. Check out this guide to get you started. Pay close attention to the "target internal temp."
What wood should I use? In general, I'd start with apple or pecan which are milder woods, or hickory, which is a bit more medium to full bodied. Once you get comfortable here, branch out and try something new. Each wood has its own flavor profile. Again, check out the bottom of this chart for what woods to use with which meat.
My pork butt or brisket has stayed at the same temp and is not moving. Help! Relax. This is perfectly normal. It's called "the stall." This is a point in the cooking where the temperature doesn't move for several hours. At this point, you can wrap in foil or butcher paper to help push through the stall (this is called the Texas crutch), or you can just let it be. Read more about the stall here.

Resources
How to manage your fire/temp - 30 Minute video that will get you started on managing your fire and temp for charcoal/wood smokers.
Amazingribs.com - Just a wealth of knowledge here. Everywhere from the science of smoking meat to recipes.
BBQ with Franklin - Widely considered as one of the best. He's a Texan and a BBQ purist. Go learn from the master and be entertained.

My Favorite Recipes
Pulled Pork - Everything you need to know about smoking a pork butt. I cover my pork butt in mustard and gently pat my rub on it.
Brisket - The Mount Everest of BBQ. This will get you headed in the right direction.
Whole Chicken - The key to amazing, tender smoked chicken is the brine. Brine your chicken 8-24 hours, dry your bird off, add salt/pepper, and smoke at 250-275 degrees until internal temp of thickest part of breast is 165.
Chicken Wings - When you're in the mood to smoke a snack, not a meal.
Cheese Stuffed Meat Loaf - Guys. This recipe is nuts. I modified it a bit because I was missing a few things. But wow.
Memphis Rub - My go to rub for pork.
Twice Baked Potato Casserole - I just take this and, instead of throwing in the oven, I smoke it.
Four Cheese Mac N Cheese - Dang, this stuff is good. Throw in some bits of smoked meat to kick it up a notch.
Smoked Green Beans - Best green beans I've ever eaten. Seriously.

Stuff I wish someone would have told me when I first started:
Thanks for reading! Leave any questions in the comments. This post is continually being updated.
Edit: Wow, thanks for gold! Check back from time to time cause I’ve been learning more and more that I’ll be adding.
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2018.04.28 00:45 skitchw A Post-Privacy Era Fairy Tale

By now you've probably read about the capture of the Golden State Killer. Bite and JackD had relevant threads here and here. Specific methodological details are still sketchy, but LEOs/investigators used contemporarily collected DNA to develop a genealogical profile of a prospective suspect, modern online genealogy data to find ethnic/familial matches and to compile and narrow a suspect list, and finally an "opportunity profile" to identify which suspect satisfied the incident timeline.
It's great to be able to use modern technology in the pursuit of justice, right?
Sure, for catching murderers, kidnapers, and rapists... But from a civil liberties perspective, what's your confidence level it stops there?
For some years now China has been using its ever-growing, state-operated video camera network in pilot projects to test technologies for a nationwide surveillance system to be rolled out sometime after 2020. To be clear, these are pilot projects that have already taken place or are being conducted now.
The apparent goal is create a system of "social credit points" to use peer pressure and, eventually, law enforcement pressure to encourage citizens to adhere to specific norms of behavior. Socially proscribed behavior earns social credit demerits (for e.g. jaywalking, littering, etc.). Drop too low and you get escalating penalties. This is mostly limited to social shaming for now. One project in Shenzhen hung video monitors at an intersection and used facial recognition software to label everybody using the intersection with their names and addresses. Jaywalkers had the distinction of getting their face outlined in red on the local displays and their information published to a shaming website.
Eventually, though, it's expected that monitored behaviors will expand and penalties for non-compliance will... intensify. As your social credit drops you will be subject to travel restrictions, denial of loans, inability to purchase luxuries, and ultimately jail time or worse. Already, police in Shenzhen are field-testing "augmented reality" glasses that can recognize people on the street, run warrant searches, etc., and alert the wearer. Think Google Glass for the police state. It's currently being sold as "crime-prevention" and "social excellence", but the endgame is behavior modification and total citizen compliance.
But LEO overreach isn't the only problem. Even ignoring facial recognition for the moment, artificial intelligence can "easily" recognize and categorize people with all kinds of criteria (with varying reliability in individual cases of course, but getting better all the time): gender, race, weight, etc. We know how easy it is to stigmatize and criminalize groups, so who will vet these systems? As a software developer, I can verify that it's trivial to add filters to change the narrative, say a simple filter that mimics an "error" whenever specific criteria are met. What happens if non-compliance is ignored 75% of the time based on a particular skin tone or other factors? With facial rec added back into the mix, specific citizens from lists of known individuals can be "overlooked" and their social credit scores impacted less often... literal whitelists and blacklists. If that "error" is ignored rather than logged, where's the accountability (answer: only via periodic code review oversight and deployment controls... but who runs those?). If only 25% of non-compliance is being recorded in an "exempt" class, the non-exempt classes have a correspondingly faster decline in their social credit score. What can autocratic legislative bodies do with that kind of narrative?
If you've kept up with the recent debates over Facebook friend harvesting and phone-tracking and -cracking, you've probably noted a growing backlash in the post-privacy era about data-profiling, who is doing the scraping, what data is being scraped, and how it's being used. That's a positive trend, but maybe it's not enough yet. The opportunity for abuse is staggering, particularly when struggling with anti-democratic, authoritarian, and even borderline fascist leadership.
China's National People's Congress recently "voted" to drop presidential term limits and appoint Xi Jinping "president for life".
Luckily, it'll never happen here... right?
Late-breaking: now being reported that investigators used an open-source DNA database called GEDmatch.
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2017.02.25 02:48 cantgetovermyex its been a week. still feeling raw. I'm the crazy ex

I was with a guy for almost three months which was really a short amount of time. If I'm going to be honest, we fucked more than we talked but I liked him a lot.
Towards the end, he wouldnt just flat out break up with me. He would make plans then cancel. Then make plans then say he has work. He ended up saying that he was starting to get feelings for someone else and then I also saw him on Jackd. Needless to say, I went apeshit for him playing these games with me. I yelled at him and he ended up essentially ghosting me which made me even angrier. I ended up putting him on blast on his facebook and even aired his dirty laundry on his company's facebook page which got him in a ton of trouble. He said he never wants me to contact him ever again. I was not in a right state of mind. It was my first relationship and I didnt know how to just let it go. I still don't know how to let it go.
I keep switching back and forth between sadness and anger. Sometimes for a fleeting moment I'm glad that I got him in trouble because he wasnt honest with me from the start. He will never admit it but I feel like he was actively trying to hurt me towards the end. Or maybe he just didnt have the balls to tell me that he was bored of me. Who knows? Its not knowing that is driving me insane.
I'm the crazy ex now and I feel so embarrassed that it was on facebook for everyone to see. I feel so embarrassed that I let someone have that kind of power over me. I feel like no one will ever date me again. I feel like I will never find someone as handsome as my ex (the sex was mindblowingly great). I was already low on self esteem. Guys never like me. Barely anyone ever messages me on apps. I felt so insecure next to my ex and always felt like he was too good for me and that it would never last because I got way too lucky for landing him at all.
I think about all the fun times we had in that short period of time and it makes me so sad I can't function. My chest feels so tight I can barely breathe. I cried a lot but I realize its so juvenile. I'm 22. I'm an adult. I don't know if I'll ever be able to put myself out there again.
How do I get over this? How do you handle a breakup like an adult? How do you stop yourself from being vindictive even if your ex was so mean to you?
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2015.07.09 19:59 Wolke13 I want to go on dates with him, but the circumstances say otherwise.

This is going to be a super long post, so be prepared!
I'm hoping I'm posting in the correct subreddit. Its lgbt and my relationship, so I guess this works.
Let me start this off with a little about myself, then. I'm 18m, and I graduated High School around 3 months ago. The past two years of my life, I've been going to school, and working at my fast food job. I got quite a few good raises because I was one of their best employees. They wanted to make me a manager after I graduated, and for the past year, I was going to accept that. My plan was to graduate High School, get an apartment with a friend, and work for a year or so until I could afford going to my preferred college or tech school.
Things changed, however, in March. Me, being a lgbt teen, who had only ever had one boyfriend in which whom I only had sex with once, wanted to try my hand at a relationship. Not. I made public dating profiles, but they were more for my own entertainment. I had low self-esteem, though my friends and peers frequently commented on how attractive I am. I would post to these profiles and get positive comments and feedback, which made me feel pretty good. Sadly, I'd also use those such as grindr, and jackd. (Ew.) But mainly I used those of Plenty of Fish and OkCupid. I talked to people, messaged them, built nice friendships in which we'd exchange the occasional nude (okay, more than occasional.) Well, that's all I did. I never met anyone from these websites. I was content with messaging.
Until he messaged me. Let me say, I've always had a thing for older guys. I don't know, they've lived. They're more educated, they have stability, they're just better. Plus they're usually much more attractive.
Anyway, I got a message from a man who was 20 so years older than I. I'd messaged guys older than I am. He sent me such a silly message that it was hard to take him seriously.
"Have you ever had a teacher daddy relationship?" He asked me. I, going along with it, while being honest, replied: "maybe ;)"
He instantly sent me his phone number and asked me my name. I looked over his profile and I was amazed. This was a straight guy? His profile said he was straight, so I was confused. Discreet, maybe? It wouldn't hurt to message him right?
I messaged him with my name, and found out his. He was a straight guy, but he somehow had an attraction to me. I was confused. He lived 176 miles from me. It wouldn't hurt to keep contact I guess.
We messaged for a few weeks, talked on the phone a little, and finally he asked if I'd want to meet. I didn't see this coming. There was no way I'd be able to make it there and meet him with my financial instability, and also my high school education going on. I explained this to him and he said yeah, he'd come see me. I told him that I lived with my family and that I couldn't just have a 30 year old man show up at my home. He offered to get a motel room. I thought about it, and a week before, I asked if I'd be able to hang out with my friends that weekend. I worked the day I met him. He drove all the way and got a room, room 128. I was nervous all day. I was freaking out. I'd never done anything so dangerous. I'd never even considered it until then. I'd only had sex once with a guy I dated for like two weeks. I had been so desperate to know what it was like. I hated the guy though, I realized he was a dick so I broke up with him and scorned myself for being so pathetic. But here was an opportunity. An older man too. I'd never been with an older man. Everything was so new! I finished work, and I drove home to clean up to go get frozen yogurt and see a movie with my friends. At least that's what my family thought. How terrible of me. I never lied like this. I never snuck out, I never got drunk, I never smoked, I was fairly innocent. Well, I drove to the motel. There he was, waiting inside by the door. I was so worried. I was nearing an anxiety attack. I got out of my vehicle and walked in. He was so handsome! He took my hand and introduced himself. He kissed me. I'd never actually kissed anyone. I was so worried I'd be terrible at it because I'd attempted kissing the one boyfriend I'd had and failed. But this kiss worked out so well. I still hadn't actually showered after work, so I asked if it'd be okay if I do so. He said yes and there I went. I freaked out in the shower. It was so exciting. There I was, my first "hook-up" (I hate the idea of hook-ups. But in the end, this wasn't one.) I finished up, and got out of the bathroom, with his clothes on. (He requested it.)
Well, I'll skip the details. We made out, we did oral stuff, he didn't want to do anal because he was uncomfortable with it at the time. We went out to eat as two guys hanging out. Probably a father and son having lunch together. It went well. That night I went home, and so did he. We continued to message each other, it was going well. I continued my schooling and my working, only my two very close friends knew about my weekend event.
Here's where things take a turn.
Graduation was coming. Life was eh, I was living with depression and working on my plan to get an apartment with a friend from work. Life was becoming dull again. I didn't really want to do my original plan, but its all I had. I only recently discovered what I wanted to do with my life, but it was too late in the school year to work on early scholarships and tuitions.
As I said, we kept messaging. We talked on the phone a few times. I told him my plans and he offered to help me get my apartment and my furniture and set myself up. I didn't know of I should agree or not. Well, we made plans to meet again, and he got a motel room again. The same stuff happened as the first time, though we got to talk more. Then eventually he asked me a question. Would I want to live with him? What? How could I accept that. (Also a note I skipped. I thought he was 30 because I misread a part of his profile. He was actually in his 40s. He also had three grown daughters and an ex wife. Wow! Quite a surprise for me.) He explained that he post an ad online for a younger guy to work for him (he owns several businesses.) By running errands, and just assisting him with stuff. I told him I'd think about it. That night ended, and I told my close work friend that I'd intended to move with the whole situation. She was supportive, strangely. I said I'd say no, because that'd be weird to move in with this guy. Over time, though, life wasn't looking well. I was sinking into depression. My school life was ending. All I'd have is a fast food job. How fun. After more discussing, with my two best friends (a grade below me) and with him, I finally decided I'd try. Now here's where it gets tricky.
He wants a straight life, he says. He warned me that eventually, its possible that he'd get a girlfriend. Now how would that affect me? Being stupid, I didn't discuss it like I should have, I didn't ask what would happen to me of he got one. I just accepted my fate. I told my family I found a job that gave me a place to stay for free, and that eventually I'd be going to school. They hated it. My mother didn't want me to leave. She contacted my "boss" via Facebook and basically interrogated him. He, being highly intelligent, passed my mothers interrogations. Whew. Graduation came. I moved two days later. I finally left my small town and moved to the city. It was strange. I was getting to know this man, we were becoming more and more involved. We sleep together, we spend time together. His family has met me, and they absolutely love me and suspect nothing. In fact, his eldest daughter had reccomended he get an assistant, so this worked well. They invite me to all their family events. They've adopted me into their family.
Life is going well.
But now the girlfriend part comes to play.
I've been here a few months, and finally the discussion comes up. I sit there, worried that I'd be kicked out, isolated. I'm already isolated. I don't have my friends. They're 175 miles away. And I can't get too close to the people here because I can't let them know who I really am. Well, he explains that he doesn't really want a girlfriend, but he needs to keep his image. So he intends on sometimes going on dates and getting a girlfriend anyway. But he also wants a girlfriend who would want to share me if anything. Or be okay with me. But if not, he wants a girlfriend that lives further away and isn't all serious about a relationship. He told me he loved me and that no matter what, I'm number one in his life. He brought me to his home and he is responsible for me now. He told me that I'm able to stay here as long as I want.
He went on a date last night. I thought I'd be okay with it. I wasn't. While I don't want to mess up his image, while I want him to be happy, I'm so so envious. I want what a woman can get from him. I want to go on romantic dates with him and hold his hand and hug him and stuff in public like a couple does. But I can't. I told him this, and he hugged me and he apologized for what I was going through as I cried.
My life is strange. I've become a secret. I have a "girlfriend." Who lives 175 miles away, as far as his family and friends know. Its my best friend who is okay with me saying she's my girlfriend. I'm a straight male. While deep down I'm bigender. I crave the female body. I want to satisfy him the way a woman can, but I was also cursed with a penis. I feel male and female. But I'd rather have the female body. Life is strange, but I'll pull through.
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2014.12.18 08:45 frackinazn When they suddenly stop talking to you...

So I don't really participate on Reddit. But I figure this is as good a place for me to flame.
One thing I can not stand about the gay community is that I often find that the guys in it act extremely selfish and childish when it comes to expressing their sudden lack of interest.
So I was talking on and off to a guy for a while through Jackd who was in another part of the country. Chatted online, via text, and even had a few decent intelligent phone conversations. I thought he was a nice guy, figured it couldn't hurt to make a new friend. So he flies into my part of the country for some job related things, and he wants to meet up. But he makes it incredibly difficult, beating around the bush, being cryptic about where he is, and everything. I'm more direct and just get to the point.
So he asks for my Facebook. Now I'm an extremely private person, and honestly somewhat discrete. But I felt I had built up some trust with this guy and figured sure can't hurt. He probably just wants to see some pics. Now he's seen pics of me I've sent him before including current ones. My Facebook is full of terrible pictures of myself. I tend to avoid the camera, or if I'm in a picture I'm constantly being goofy. So my Facebook is essentially filled with pictures of me from years ago, looking goofy, and beyond that, over half a decade ago when I was a fatty.
Anyways as soon as I give him my Facebook, he stops talking to me. And this is what pisses me off. I get if I'm not your type. I'm even fine if you're superficial and I don't match whatever image of a guy you need to make you feel good about your own insecurities. But what bugs me is that this isn't someone I just talked to for the first time, and then saw my pics and went ok not interested and ignored me. That I can handle. It's the fact that I built up some capital with this person, had several good intelligent conversations with them, and felt I had built some trust with each other. In fact he was the one always bugging to talk to me. He was also a well educated guy, a former silicon valley hardware engineer who is getting his MBA at one of the top bschools in the nation. This is someone I expected to have a little more class or at least have the courage to say hey you know you're not my type.
But I'm realizing it doesn't matter what your background is or how educated you are. A lot of guys in the gay community simply do not have the character or the courage to tell someone they're not interested. And honestly all I can say to that is this. In the words of a wise comedian.
Be a man. Do the right thing.
EDIT: This isn't so much a rant about me feeling rejected or what not. My issue is more about how we treat each other and how this is becoming a norm. Maybe I'm just old school, but I still believe in talking on the phone, meeting up in person rather than endless text conversations over an app to try to get to know each other, having the courage to just hang out rather than keeping it online, etc. And when it comes to rejections, having the character and respect to tell someone I'm not interested. I feel like we constantly look for the easy way out, use technology to replace real social interactions, and commoditize every "human" interaction we have with people now. And we miss out on so much just spending time with people in real life. And the lessons we have to learn when we have to confront people about uncomfortable things.
I feel we treat each other more like cattle than people. Use an app. Judge if a person is worthy to talk to. Prolong any real interaction while hiding behind technology to assess whether we want to take a simple nonrisk like grabbing a drink. When disinterested, just discard. Move on to the next. We forget that the people we talk to online are people. And I feel that's probably why it's so easy to troll, throw away, and say things you would never do in real life face to face with someone.
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2014.06.21 02:26 throw4920 Gay apps or websites which allows for longer, elaborate profiles?

I don't exactly have a hot face or hot bod so it's usually what I write which reel the guys in. What are some gay apps that allow for longer, elaborate profiles? Thanks!
I'm not looking for one-offs. I'm looking for friendship (both platonic/with benefits), chats and relationships, basically strings.
Some apps and websites I've been using and my opinions:
Grindr: most guys on this but people are just too horny, character limit sucks, shows only 200 guys
Scruff: generous character limit which I love, but I'm young, not a bear or muscled so I don't get a lot of attention
Hornet: pathetic character limit and functions just like a less buggy grindr and you can load unlimited guys
Gayromeo: I like this best, it has an app and allows for really long profiles
Jackd: I've had problems with bots on jackd but I like that it allows long profiles
Tinder: Cruel, superficial app, but I find comfort in the fact that when a match does occur, I can safely assume that both of us are into each other. It could use a longer character limit. Being tied with facebook accounts makes conversations on Tinder much civil, but people can be so shy to initiate and reply on Tinder.
OKCupid: Best in the dating game, but I feel really really inferior when I look at others' profiles, some guys are just too good to be true: great job, good looking, more educated and cultured, fascinating background, all in one package. It's a barrier I really have to overcome myself.
Any other websites or apps to recommend?
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